Temperature play is a fun way to experiment with different erotic sensations. Has your lover ever kissed you after taking a sip of their cold drink? That icy kiss is a small taste of what temperature play can be. This type of play is often associated with BDSM, but can be modified to satisfy vanilla tastes too. Temperature play can include heat and cold play.
Glass toys are designed to hold temperature, so they are wonderful toys for this type of play. Grab a bowl, fill it with warm/hot water, and submerge your glass toy. Allow it to sit for a few minutes and it should be ready to play with. Be sure to check the temperature on the inside of your wrist prior to play. If it is too hot there, then wait a few minutes for it to cool before using it on your more sensitive parts. I suggest avoiding the microwave to heat your toy. Microwaves can cause uneven heating and end up with dangerous hot spots on your toy. You can reverse the process for cold play by filling the bowl with cold water (even adding ice if you choose). If you are feeling extra adventurous, you can even make an
ice dildo.
Ice cubes rubbed across your partner's body can cause chilling sensations. Drinking an iced drink or sucking on ice then kissing, licking, sucking your partner's body gives delicious cold sensations too. This is especially exciting if combined with oral sex.
Using hot candle wax is another fun way to add heat in your play. The distance the candle is held off of the skin allows more control over the heat of the wax. The higher up you hold it, the more time it has to cool before reaching the skin (18 inches is generally considered a safe distance). You then drip or pour the melted wax onto your partner's skin. Cheap white paraffin or votive candles are best for beginners. Beeswax candles melt at a much higher temperature, so the wax is much hotter on the skin. Check the temperature on yourself before applying to your lover. The back and shoulders are good spots to begin with. Be careful not to get the wax in your partner's hair since it can be tricky to get out. Special candles are also made for this type of wax play.
Spanking or flogging your partner before adding temperature play is the equivalent of turning up the volume. The increase in blood flow to the surface of the skin causes more sensitivity. I don't suggest switching between ice and heat rapidly for beginners - it can cause serious burns.
To make sure that both you and your partner get the most enjoyment out of temperature play, check in with each other often. Like all other forms of sexual play, communication is key to an great experience.
Glass toys are designed to hold temperature, so they are wonderful toys for this type of play. Grab a bowl, fill it with warm/hot water, and submerge your glass toy. Allow it to sit for a few minutes and it should be ready to play with. Be sure to check the temperature on the inside of your wrist prior to play. If it is too hot there, then wait a few minutes for it to cool before using it on your more sensitive parts. I suggest avoiding the microwave to heat your toy. Microwaves can cause uneven heating and end up with dangerous hot spots on your toy. You can reverse the process for cold play by filling the bowl with cold water (even adding ice if you choose). If you are feeling extra adventurous, you can even make an ice dildo.
Ice cubes rubbed across your partner's body can cause chilling sensations. Drinking an iced drink or sucking on ice then kissing, licking, sucking your partner's body gives delicious cold sensations too. This is especially exciting if combined with oral sex.
Using hot candle wax is another fun way to add heat in your play. The distance the candle is held off of the skin allows more control over the heat of the wax. The higher up you hold it, the more time it has to cool before reaching the skin (18 inches is generally considered a safe distance). You then drip or pour the melted wax onto your partner's skin. Cheap white paraffin or votive candles are best for beginners. Beeswax candles melt at a much higher temperature, so the wax is much hotter on the skin. Check the temperature on yourself before applying to your lover. The back and shoulders are good spots to begin with. Be careful not to get the wax in your partner's hair since it can be tricky to get out. Special candles are also made for this type of wax play.
Spanking or flogging your partner before adding temperature play is the equivalent of turning up the volume. The increase in blood flow to the surface of the skin causes more sensitivity. I don't suggest switching between ice and heat rapidly for beginners - it can cause serious burns.
To make sure that both you and your partner get the most enjoyment out of temperature play, check in with each other often. Like all other forms of sexual play, communication is key to an great experience.
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