Prostate Play

Amazing health benefits AND mind blowing orgasms... yes please! Prostate play offers men both of these.

Let me go ahead and dispel one of the biggest myths that prevents men from exploring this type of sexual experience. Anal play does not make a man gay. Specific sexual acts have nothing to do with sexual orientation! Gay, straight, bisexual. or otherwise - everyone can benefit from prostate play. Do what feels good to you. Explore your body, stimulate what sets your body ablaze, and forget close-minded stigmas of the past. Combining prostate play with something familiar, such as oral sex, can make it easier to explore. So what exactly is the prostate? The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located at the root of the penis. It is often referred to as the male 'g-spot' or 'p-spot' and is responsible for about a third of the fluid found in semen. It benefits my health and gives me pleasure? Absolutely! Regular prostate massage has been shown to reduce prostate cancer, erectile dysfunction, enlarged prostate, and frequent nighttime urination. It increases blood flow and improves overall erectile function. In addition to the health benefits, many men report amazing whole body orgasms too. How do I stimulate the prostate? It can be found by inserting a toy or finger inside the anus and curling it toward the navel. The prostate becomes engorged when a man is aroused, so it is often easier to find at that point. Be sure to use plenty of lube since the anus does not make its own lubrication. Explore different movements to see what feels best. Stroking, pressure, or larger motions of often preferred, though small motions and vibrations may feel good too. When using a finger or two, many men find the "come here" motion, tapping, circles, or firm pressure very pleasing. It is difficult for a man to reach his own prostate with his fingers alone (unless he has extraordinarily long fingers). Asking your partner to stimulate it for you is a great way to incorporate this into your play. Taking time to trim fingernails or wearing exam gloves will help protect the delicate anal walls. Using a toy is another great way to stimulate your prostate alone or with a partner. Many great prostate toys have a curve that gives direct stimulation to the prostate. G-spot toys are often great as prostate toys too. Be sure to choose a toy with a flared base to prevent it from going all the way inside (it can get lost and that will quickly ruin a good time). Choose a toy made of a non-porous material such as silicone, glass, or metal. If you must use a toy that is porous, slip a condom on over it prior to use. Will it hurt? Pain is your body's signal that something is not right. Prostate massage should not hurt! If it does, then stop and tweak your method. Like a woman's g-spot, massaging the prostate can feel like a need to urinate. With time, you will learn to differentiate these feelings. Until then, urinate prior to play to make yourself more comfortable. With such an array of benefits, what are you waiting for? Lube up and let go with some prostate play. -- Jessica Rabbit Twitter: www.twitter.com/omnilust Facebook: www.facebook.com/omnilust Blog: http://omnilust.com