Thursday, May 29, 2014

Getting Wet - Water Sex


The weather is getting hotter, clothes are becoming more scarce, and water is all the more appealing.  Whether you are cooling off in the pool or closing out the night with a soak in the jacuzzi, don't miss an opportunity for great sex.  Of course it sounds hot, wet, and simple ... but water sex can be trickier than you might realize.


The number one rule for great sex in the water is to use a great lube!  Contrary to what you might think, being in the water does not equal extra lubrication.  The water actually washes away a woman's natural lubrication and can make sex quite uncomfortable.  Water based lubes are easily washed away and result in squeak and friction.  Using a silicone based lube, such as Pink Silicone Lube, will make things much more slick and enjoyable.  

Using condoms in the water can prove to be difficult.  They tend to slip off in the water, so make sure to have plenty more close by just in case.  Try to put the condom on prior to getting in the water to help it stay on.  Also remember that pool chemicals such as chlorine or additives such as bath oil or bubble bath my harm a latex condom.

Whether you plan to get it on in the pool, shower, or another water filled place... here are some positions to try:


Jet Jiggy  -  Facing a jet, kneel on the seat of a hot tub and lean forward so you're on all fours.  Have your partner kneel between your legs so he can enter you from behind.  Once he's firmly inside you, both of you should grab on to the edge of the tub to help balance yourselves and slowly straighten up so the two of you are upright.  Continue holding on to the tub for support as he pumps away.



Ladder Lovin'  -  This position requires some maneuvering.  Climb down to the second-to-last rung of the pool ladder.  Do a 180, holding the rails, so your back is to the wall.  Lean forward and spread your legs so your guy can lower himself behind you and place his feet between your legs on the rung below you.  Adjust your bodies so he can slip himself inside you.



Tawdry Tube  -  Have your guy sit in an inner tube with his legs dangling over the edge.  Then straddle his lap while facing him, and slowly lower yourself onto his penis with your hands on his shoulders or the tube for support.  Once he's inside you, begin to rock back and forth.  He can intensify the action by grasping your hips to help propel you.



Hot-Tub Hug  -  Start with your guy sitting on the bench with his knees bent and legs slightly spread, leaning back with his arms outstretched and resting on the edge of the tub.  Straddle him, facing forward, and lower yourself onto his penis, holding on to his shoulders for support.  Keep your knees bent and feet flat as you move up and down or back and forth.





Sea Horse  -  Have your man lie on his back, facing the ocean, with his legs straight out in front of him and in the water.  He can prop himself up on his forearms if he doesn't want to get his hair full of sand.  Straddle his lap while facing away from him and slowly lower yourself onto his member.  Rest your hands on his pelvic area or thighs to help propel you.


Get a Leg Up  -  Fill the tub with only a few inches of water, then turn on the shower and let it run lightly.  Lie on your side, propped up on your forearm.  (Bend your knees if you need to.)  Lift your top leg, then have your man straddle your other leg.  Once he's entered you, rest your lifted leg on his shoulder as he holds on to your elevated thigh for leverage.



Bubbly Back Float  -  Recline in a hot tub with your arms stretched out to your sides, holding on to the edge of the tub for support if you need to.  Your partner kneels between your legs, facing you, and lifts you by the backs of your thighs so you're floating off the seat and he can enter you.







Tell me something you love about sex in the water?



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Tuesday, May 20, 2014

TMI TUESDAY - You are such a character

This week TMI Tuesday looks at human character via astrology and personality tests.

You are such a character

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1. What is your astrological symbol?   Goat    Does it fit you?  Yes very much so.

2. List 3 of the good traits of your astrological symbol to which you can relate.
1.  Hard Work
2.  Determined
3.  practical

3. List 3 of the worst traits of your astrological symbol that you believe do not pertain to you.
 1. Organized
2. Need Allies
3.

4. What is your Chinese zodiac animal symbol?
TIGER

5. In Chinese philosophy, The Theory of the Five Elements describes the interaction and relation of natural phenomena. The five elements of wood, fire, Earth, metal and water affect your zodiac sign. Which element are you? Find out here
METAL

Bonus: Briefly tell us something you found interesting about your Chinese zodiac as it pertains to the Five Elements.

 Metal – Righteousness
The metal pronounces the life span, longevity or abortion, foretelling any penalties, dangers, difficulties and dead end.

Bonus, Bonus: What cartoon/comic character best describes you? Take the short personality test and share your results. Test: http://www.youthink.com/quiz.cfm?obj_id=1433


He-Man
You`re the toughie around here. People respect you and look to you for help. No one is quite yet sure about your sexual orientation, but times are still young and you have many years to develop. Nevertheless, you are a good friend to have. You may have to work on that brain of yours though.


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Tuesday, April 29, 2014

TMI Tuesday: April 29, 2014

This week’s TMI Tuesday was adapted from Friday Fill-ins.



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Fill in the blanks below with whatever comes to mind first or is sexy or crazy. Have fun!

1. For me, it was the first time I saw willy .
2.   The first time I did it in the produce section at my local supermarket.
3. Behind the tree when we kissed .
4. Sky diving is something I always wanted to do.
5. When it was over, do it again.
6. Tonight I’m looking forward to dancing and singing.

Bonus: What is it? Explain how you would use it.   This an anal toy.   Rechargeable, portable and ooh so comfy with its rounded head.  Bonus - Remove the cap at the end and out pops a rotating vibrator.  Come try and enjoy.
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Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Get Gel-ous - Stimulate Me Baby!

Hello, loves.  Lets talk stimulation gel.  Most people have heard of them.  These gels can be a god-send for women struggling to get to their big moment.  For others, they can be a nightmare.  That’s why I’m here.  To help you find the ones that are right for you, and to give you the down low on the ingredients.



Whats inside

First up, what makes these things work?  The warming gels use caspian (peppers, usually from cayenne) oils or cinnamon oil.  If you are in any way allergic to peppers, please use the cinnamon base.  The cooling gels use either menthol or witch hazel to achieve the desired effect.  These ingredients increase blood flow to the area applied, and can help to achieve orgasm more easily.

Another  common ingredient is Acacia Honey, which has been known to cause a yeast infection in sensitive women.  Just watch the labels and go for ones without any kind of sweeteners.  



The Nightmares?

Because of the ingredients listed above, there are cautions you should know about.  These can cause skin irritation in some women, and have been known to be too strong and cause pain when used vaginally.  One of the most common complaints seems to be a yeast infection.  Many of these issues can be avoided by reading the ingredients and making sure you use them for clitoral stimulation instead of a personal lubricant.  They have an entirely different set of lubricants (g-spot gels) for this.   



So, which one is for me? 

Each one causes a different sensation, and the ingredients can cause a different intensity.  Getting a gel with the active ingredient closer to the bottom of the list can help to lessen the blow, especially if you are a new user.  Try them out! Not suggesting you buy a bottle of each  (some can be pretty pricy, up to $40), but there are other ways to experiment.  Getting free samples from the manufacturer is a good way to test the waters.  Another is to host or attend a toy party through a personal consultant.  They usually have gels you can test out at the party, or they can order some samples for you if none are on hand.  

Test out a small (PEA SIZE!) amount.  This will ensure you don’t have too much if you are sensitive, and will keep any issues   (see “the nightmares”) from arising.  Always use a small amount when testing a new product. If irritation occurs, please see your doctor.  

Don’t forget to take the product with you.

Play safe!

Get Gel-ous by: Rekindled Sparks
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TMI Tuesday: Odd and Ends

This week’s TMI Tuesday is an outlet for the quirky you. It’s titled Odd and Ends because it is the leftover ideas/questions/thoughts that couldn’t fit into a theme but I know it’s TMI you want to share :)

Let’s Play…


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1. How addicted are you? You are in a rush, there is no time to make your morning coffee or stop to buy it. However, you can save time and get your “energy high” by brushing your teeth with a caffeine-infused toothbrush. Would you buy and use this product? Why or why not?

2. You made a sex list of all the things you’d like to do but haven’t done. The list was lost and discovered by your boss at work. He/she ask if they can help you tick a few items off the list. What do you say?

3. Sex around the house. Have you ever been bent over the kitchen counter or bent a lover over the kitchen counter and fucked? What did you like most about it? What did you like least?

4. Sexting…How do you really feel about it?
a. Meh? Not my thing.
b. Can take it or leave it, usually have to be begged to do it
c. I like it, it’s like foreplay.
d. Love it! I’m always sending naughty notes and steamy pics.
e. What’s your number? I have a daily sexting list, wanna sign up?

5. What do you love to sniff? Why?
Bonus: What is it? Explain how you would use it.
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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!
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Tuesday, April 8, 2014

TMI Tuesday - The Art of Sex

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To all of our followers take the below quiz and email your answers to virginia@tickletoyparties.com - one lucky winner will win a $25 gift certificate for a fun sexy product!

1. Would you take or have you taken a sexually themed vacation getaway (i.e., Hedonism, Club Fantasy Island, Cap d’Agde)? Why or why not? 

2. You have won an erotic fantasy weekend getaway package custom fit to your needs. Describe the fantasy you desire. 

3. An artist has decided that you are his/her inspiration. They want to capture the essence of your sexiness in a sculpture. What would that sculpture look like? Describe it for us or post a photo of an existing sculpture that you believe closely captures the essence of your sexiness.

4. You are being paid 500,000 USD to pose as a live nude model mimicking one of sculptures in the photo below. Which sculpture will you recreate live? Why?
3 sculpture jeju loveland
5. Which book title fits your current thoughts of love, sex or romance?

a. No More Silly Love Songs
b. The Joy of the Quickie
c. Dr. Seth’s Love Prescription
d. Why Do Fools Fall In Love

Bonus: Which one is you? See the sculpture below. Tell us which position you would like to occupy and write a caption.
Jeju-loveland-trio
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Happy TMI Tuesday!
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Thursday, March 13, 2014

A Firm Hand, A Slight Touch, A Loving Smack


There is nothing quite as exhilarating as a smack on the bottom during a steamy encounter. The little sting can be just enough to make you and your partner quiver with excitement. A common misconception is that spanking has to be painful. In this article we will cover a brief history is spanking, why people enjoy it, and different methods.

Spanking is as ancient as civilization itself. In some countries, spanking is used as discipline. A husband may even feel obligated to discipline his wife this way. Please note, these countries do not condone beating your wife, simply bending her over the knee and “busting her ass.” It has been outlawed in the U.S. as domestic abuse, though some families do still use the method behind closed doors.

Erotic spanking is jus as old! Drawing dating back to fifth century B.C. can be found in The Tomb of the Whipping (Tomba della Fustigazione) in the Necropolis of Monterozzi near Tarquinia, Italy*. It also makes up a large portion of Victorian pornography (then called “birching”). Spanking is such a loved erotic act that it has spawned a whole array of toys and implements for use. From spanking skirts with open backs to floggers, paddles, and benches, it is adored by many. Popular items include the bare hand, a paddle, rulers, sneakers, riding crops, and rulers.

Now, here is something educational text won’t tell you. USE SAFETY! While spanking can be a very enjoyable experience, you can (especially with an implement) spank too hard. The idea is to have a good time for all, not to hurt the other. If (s)he is crying or begging you to stop, its probably time to stop. Using a safe word (especially with roleplay) is always a good idea. You aren’t likely to hear “Coffee” shouted in the middle of sex, and it will quickly halt a potentially dangerous scenario. We will cover more of this in another article.

Well that's great and all, but how do I introduce it? Good question. For some couples, it seems a natural step. Others are a little more reserved, especially if they are still dating. If you are in the latter group, there are several ways to bring it up. One is to just talk about it. Honest and open communication is a big key for any successful relationship. Introduce the topic of sex and fantasies. You may learn each is more adventurous than previously thought. Another way is to test it. A gentile smack on her bottom while she is doing dishes or comes home late could lead to tons of fun. Ladies, he could enjoy this just as much. A wet towel left on the floor would be a great opportunity for discovery. In personal experience, dropping hints such as "I have been bad" rarely works unless you have established that spanking is enjoyed.

Above all, your sex life should be fun, exciting, safe, and consensual. Be sure your partner is comfortable with giving/receiving any new experience. Nothing kills the sexy like an unexpected and unwelcome addition.

Play safe!
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* http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_spanking
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