TMI Tuesday: April 29, 2014

This week’s TMI Tuesday was adapted from Friday Fill-ins.





Fill in the blanks below with whatever comes to mind first or is sexy or crazy. Have fun!

1. For me, it was the first time I saw willy .
2.   The first time I did it in the produce section at my local supermarket.
3. Behind the tree when we kissed .
4. Sky diving is something I always wanted to do.
5. When it was over, do it again.
6. Tonight I’m looking forward to dancing and singing.

Bonus: What is it? Explain how you would use it.   This an anal toy.   Rechargeable, portable and ooh so comfy with its rounded head.  Bonus - Remove the cap at the end and out pops a rotating vibrator.  Come try and enjoy.

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Get Gel-ous - Stimulate Me Baby!

Hello, loves.  Lets talk stimulation gel.  Most people have heard of them.  These gels can be a god-send for women struggling to get to their big moment.  For others, they can be a nightmare.  That’s why I’m here.  To help you find the ones that are right for you, and to give you the down low on the ingredients.

Whats inside

First up, what makes these things work?  The warming gels use caspian (peppers, usually from cayenne) oils or cinnamon oil.  If you are in any way allergic to peppers, please use the cinnamon base.  The cooling gels use either menthol or witch hazel to achieve the desired effect.  These ingredients increase blood flow to the area applied, and can help to achieve orgasm more easily.

Another  common ingredient is Acacia Honey, which has been known to cause a yeast infection in sensitive women.  Just watch the labels and go for ones without any kind of sweeteners.  

The Nightmares?

Because of the ingredients listed above, there are cautions you should know about.  These can cause skin irritation in some women, and have been known to be too strong and cause pain when used vaginally.  One of the most common complaints seems to be a yeast infection.  Many of these issues can be avoided by reading the ingredients and making sure you use them for clitoral stimulation instead of a personal lubricant.  They have an entirely different set of lubricants (g-spot gels) for this.   

So, which one is for me? 

Each one causes a different sensation, and the ingredients can cause a different intensity.  Getting a gel with the active ingredient closer to the bottom of the list can help to lessen the blow, especially if you are a new user.  Try them out! Not suggesting you buy a bottle of each  (some can be pretty pricy, up to $40), but there are other ways to experiment.  Getting free samples from the manufacturer is a good way to test the waters.  Another is to host or attend a toy party through a personal consultant.  They usually have gels you can test out at the party, or they can order some samples for you if none are on hand.  

Test out a small (PEA SIZE!) amount.  This will ensure you don’t have too much if you are sensitive, and will keep any issues   (see “the nightmares”) from arising.  Always use a small amount when testing a new product. If irritation occurs, please see your doctor.  

Don’t forget to take the product with you.

Play safe!

Get Gel-ous by: Rekindled Sparks

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TMI Tuesday: Odd and Ends

This week’s TMI Tuesday is an outlet for the quirky you. It’s titled Odd and Ends because it is the leftover ideas/questions/thoughts that couldn’t fit into a theme but I know it’s TMI you want to share :)

Let’s Play…



1. How addicted are you? You are in a rush, there is no time to make your morning coffee or stop to buy it. However, you can save time and get your “energy high” by brushing your teeth with a caffeine-infused toothbrush. Would you buy and use this product? Why or why not?

2. You made a sex list of all the things you’d like to do but haven’t done. The list was lost and discovered by your boss at work. He/she ask if they can help you tick a few items off the list. What do you say?

3. Sex around the house. Have you ever been bent over the kitchen counter or bent a lover over the kitchen counter and fucked? What did you like most about it? What did you like least?

4. Sexting…How do you really feel about it?
a. Meh? Not my thing.
b. Can take it or leave it, usually have to be begged to do it
c. I like it, it’s like foreplay.
d. Love it! I’m always sending naughty notes and steamy pics.
e. What’s your number? I have a daily sexting list, wanna sign up?

5. What do you love to sniff? Why?
Bonus: What is it? Explain how you would use it.

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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!

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TMI Tuesday - The Art of Sex

To all of our followers take the below quiz and email your answers to virginia@tickletoyparties.com - one lucky winner will win a $25 gift certificate for a fun sexy product!

1. Would you take or have you taken a sexually themed vacation getaway (i.e., Hedonism, Club Fantasy Island, Cap d’Agde)? Why or why not? 

2. You have won an erotic fantasy weekend getaway package custom fit to your needs. Describe the fantasy you desire. 

3. An artist has decided that you are his/her inspiration. They want to capture the essence of your sexiness in a sculpture. What would that sculpture look like? Describe it for us or post a photo of an existing sculpture that you believe closely captures the essence of your sexiness.

4. You are being paid 500,000 USD to pose as a live nude model mimicking one of sculptures in the photo below. Which sculpture will you recreate live? Why?

5. Which book title fits your current thoughts of love, sex or romance?

a. No More Silly Love Songs
b. The Joy of the Quickie
c. Dr. Seth’s Love Prescription
d. Why Do Fools Fall In Love

Bonus: Which one is you? See the sculpture below. Tell us which position you would like to occupy and write a caption.

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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!

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A Firm Hand, A Slight Touch, A Loving Smack

There is nothing quite as exhilarating as a smack on the bottom during a steamy encounter. The little sting can be just enough to make you and your partner quiver with excitement. A common misconception is that spanking has to be painful. In this article we will cover a brief history is spanking, why people enjoy it, and different methods.

Spanking is as ancient as civilization itself. In some countries, spanking is used as discipline. A husband may even feel obligated to discipline his wife this way. Please note, these countries do not condone beating your wife, simply bending her over the knee and “busting her ass.” It has been outlawed in the U.S. as domestic abuse, though some families do still use the method behind closed doors.

Erotic spanking is jus as old! Drawing dating back to fifth century B.C. can be found in The Tomb of the Whipping (Tomba della Fustigazione) in the Necropolis of Monterozzi near Tarquinia, Italy*. It also makes up a large portion of Victorian pornography (then called “birching”). Spanking is such a loved erotic act that it has spawned a whole array of toys and implements for use. From spanking skirts with open backs to floggers, paddles, and benches, it is adored by many. Popular items include the bare hand, a paddle, rulers, sneakers, riding crops, and rulers.

Now, here is something educational text won’t tell you. USE SAFETY! While spanking can be a very enjoyable experience, you can (especially with an implement) spank too hard. The idea is to have a good time for all, not to hurt the other. If (s)he is crying or begging you to stop, its probably time to stop. Using a safe word (especially with roleplay) is always a good idea. You aren’t likely to hear “Coffee” shouted in the middle of sex, and it will quickly halt a potentially dangerous scenario. We will cover more of this in another article.

Well that's great and all, but how do I introduce it? Good question. For some couples, it seems a natural step. Others are a little more reserved, especially if they are still dating. If you are in the latter group, there are several ways to bring it up. One is to just talk about it. Honest and open communication is a big key for any successful relationship. Introduce the topic of sex and fantasies. You may learn each is more adventurous than previously thought. Another way is to test it. A gentile smack on her bottom while she is doing dishes or comes home late could lead to tons of fun. Ladies, he could enjoy this just as much. A wet towel left on the floor would be a great opportunity for discovery. In personal experience, dropping hints such as "I have been bad" rarely works unless you have established that spanking is enjoyed.

Above all, your sex life should be fun, exciting, safe, and consensual. Be sure your partner is comfortable with giving/receiving any new experience. Nothing kills the sexy like an unexpected and unwelcome addition.

Play safe!
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* http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_spanking

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Squirting 101

Have you heard of squirting? - Do you want to squirt?

The ability to squirt during orgasm is perhaps one of the more elusive and taboo parts of a woman’s anatomy. Squirting can be a huge turn on for guys and it can intensify an orgasm for a woman tenfold. Many people believe that squirting isn’t something women can do at all, but in recent years it has been proven that women can indeed squirt. So what is squirting anyways?

What Is Squirting? 

Squirting for women is much like ejaculating is for a man. All women have a functioning prostate gland that starts producing fluid when a girl begins to go through puberty. This fluid is what is ejaculated from the vulva when a woman “squirts.” It does not come from the vagina nor does it come from the urethra, where urine is expelled. It comes from its very own special gland called the Skene’s gland. This gland is present in all women and its sole function is to serve as an exit for a woman’s prostate fluid. However, not all women can or will squirt during their lifetimes!

What Is The Fluid Made Of? 

The fluid a woman ejaculates when she squirts is a clear, very thin and watery fluid. It can sometimes be milky in color, and possesses its very own odor. It does not contain any sperm, but it does contain higher levels of glucose and enzymes that are similar to male semen. Many people who were or are skeptical about a woman’s ability to squirt have said that the fluid ejaculated during orgasm is simply urine, but this has been scientifically disproved. A woman may feel like she is about to urinate when she is getting ready to squirt, but true squirting consists only of this special fluid from the prostate gland. Female ejaculate is also separate from the fluid the vagina naturally makes during sexual arousal. The fluid made by the vagina during sexual arousal is often thicker and more sticky, while female ejaculate is more of a transparent type liquid.

 

Stimulating The G-Spot 

To make a woman squirt, it requires intense g-spot stimulation. Use very firm pressure! A woman will not squirt if not enough pressure is used. However, it is important that a woman be relaxed and extremely turned on before attempting to make her squirt. For a woman to squirt, she must be comfortable enough to completely let go, because if any part of her is holding back, she’s not going to be able to squirt. Starting with firm pressure isn’t going to do anything but make her uncomfortable. Get her very wet and very turned on before you begin stimulating her g-spot and prostate gland. Stimulate her labia, her vagina and her clitoris first, or at the same time that you stimulate her g-spot. Have patience, because it will usually take a few to several tries before squirting is actually achieved.

There is nothing wrong or abnormal about female ejaculation – in fact, quite the opposite! Squirting can deeply enhance a woman’s orgasms and spice up a couple’s sex life tremendously. Every woman can learn how to squirt – she just has to learn to let go!

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April Is National Buzzzz Your Friend Month!

Why not? The vibrator has been around since the 1890's. We even have a museum built around their glory (Vibrator Museum Organizers Hope To Create A Buzz]. And let's face it, here in the good ol U.S. of A., just about every day is SOME kind of national holiday.

April, for example, is National Humor Month, International Guitar Month, Keep America Beautiful Month, Lawn and Garden Month, Mathematics Awareness Month, National Poetry Month, National Pecan Month, National Welding Month, Records and Information Management Month, Stress Awareness Month, Sexual Assault Awareness Month, and many more.

So I propose we add another - National Buzz Month or National Buy Your Mate A Vibrator Month, or something of the sort. Can I get a "Heck Yea!?"

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